Writing on the inner life

Therapy articles for the examined life.

Thoughtful, plain-language essays about anxiety, depression, burnout, relationships, and what it can feel like to begin therapy.

Trauma therapy

Do I Have to Tell My Trauma Story in Therapy?

How treatment approach, pacing, collaboration, and choice shape what you discuss—and what to ask before beginning.

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Burnout & life transitions

When Achievement Stops Being Enough

Success arrived. The promised feeling did not. On burnout, depression, and the questions that emerge when achievement stops organizing a life.

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Anxiety

Why Smart People Can't Think Their Way Out of Anxiety

Intelligence can describe a pattern brilliantly while leaving the body and nervous system exactly where they were.

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Depression

Depression as Descent

A depth-oriented view of withdrawal, meaning, and why going under is not always the wrong direction.

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Relationships

The Argument Beneath the Argument

Why recurring conflict is rarely only about the subject being discussed—and what the repetition may be protecting.

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Beginning therapy

What Happens in the First Three Therapy Sessions

A practical account of fit, pacing, questions, and what you do—and do not—need to arrive prepared to discuss.

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Depth psychology

What Your Symptoms Are Trying to Tell You

A symptom can be painful and still carry information about what has not yet found another way to be expressed.

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The therapeutic process

The River of Awareness

What changes when attention becomes less corrective and more curious—in therapy and in ordinary life.

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